i am fascinated at how many trans women want to get GRS but at the same time, it is ironic and disheartening to see so much narrative and language that assumes all trans women have penises. i mean if that is who you mean, then perhaps specify pre and/or non-op trans women.

i get that most trans people do keep their original genitals, but consistently omitting us post-op people from discussion by default gets erasing and invalidating.

it's like me tweeting my GRS post-op experiences using language that assumes only post-ops are trans.

fuck that nonsense right?