Ask yourself, "What's to love about someone who doesn't love me?" and you'll realize that someone that you have to chase/beg for love/respect doesn't deserve you. If you're chasing then that means they're running. They don't see your value. That should be a BIG ass turn off.

I don't know about y'all but a standard that I have for those that are lucky enough to be loved me is that they have to find me awesome. They have to see my value. They have to like me. They have to know that I'm something special. I like people who like me and show me how much.

Chasing someone and asking them to find you awesome? To want to spend time with you? To talk to you? To feel the same feelings? It'll get you nowhere. It'll slowly ruin your self-esteem and no amount of their SPARSE validation will actually make you feel better. Stop chasing.

It's really as simple as the fact that there shouldn't be anything appealing about someone who doesn't find you appealing. It's that simple.

If you don't think I'm cool and charming, that's fine. Move over and make some room for the people with taste ;)

You're not their flavor. Their type. Or maybe you are but the way that they're going about pursuing you/playing it cool/whatever else they're doing that's having you CHASE them isn't YOUR flavor. My point is to pursue people who pursue you back in a way that's pleasing to you.

A concept...

date people that like you and show you that they like you :O