I need u guys to understand how much of an emotional bond dom/sub relationships cause. If u are NOT READY to grow intimate feelings for someone do NOT submit to them or dom them regularly. It takes trust, a bond, intimacy, and an exchange of power. Be smart or you WILL get hurt +

Communication! Aftercare! Understand eachothers needs and wants! Ask questions! "Will this be longterm? Is it purely sexual or is there romance? Are we exclusive?" Dont get urself hurt living in the unknown. This is BDSM, it IS serious esp if u dont know what ur doing. Its fun +

but its not easy to do casually when ur underinformed and have unrealistic expectations. Take care of yourselves! Im tired of seeing my babies sad on here. Be careful with your heart and PLEASE DO RESEARCH!!!!!!!!!!! U can NEVER do enough research!!!!