Little word of advice: If somebody really wants to speak to you, they'll put in the effort to do so. Trust me, they'll MAKE time to speak to you...

Another thing: If you notice you're always the one messaging first/initiating conversation then, I'm sorry, you're probably not that important to them and they're replying back to be nice.

Point Three: It's very easy to have "Yes" men/women in your corner who gas up every breathe you take. When was the last time any of your "friends" truly gave you sincere advice or patterned you?

Point four: When somebody vents to you and tells you their problems, a lot of the time they KNOW you're not able to help. They don't want that. Shut up and LISTEN because when the world is going a million miles an hour, a listening+ caring presence is invaluable

Point 5: The only Two you ever need to answer to is Allah and yourself when you look in the mirror. You'll never be able to control how you're viewed by others. As long as you do right by yourself and your relationship with God then, with the utmost respect, allow everyone else!

Point 6: My final one for today.Please; EVERYONE be kinder to one another. Been working in psychiatry the last 4 months+ and honestly have been humbled by the life stories of so many of my patients. You have no idea what others are going through and vice versa.

(2/2)- Its so easy to judge and say "Our problems are so bad, noone has it worse" when I can ASSURE you,so many of my patients' stories have brought me to tears. EVERYONE'S STORY IS VALID! Let's bear those hidden stories in mind the next time we're jumping to conclusions.