This thread is not trying to make fun of brats! Having a stubborn subspace is adorable, especially when you get put in your place, but there are a lot of times where one can get a little carried away. Here's what you should know:
⭒ Not all Doms are brat tamers. Sometimes it's just not in their personality to always be able to "break" you. Sometimes they expect you to comply if they ask you sweetly. Constantly putting up a fight with everything they ask you is exhausting, and takes the fun
out of being a brat. If your dom isn't used to brats or just can't handle them, then do your best to try and be obedient. Playfulness is always adorable, but if your dom personally doesn't have the attitude or skills or want to always make you behave, it's not impossible
to just listen and comply.
⭒It's more of a turn on for them if you behave. Begging for their touch, promises that you'll be good, telling them you need them.. all of that can be more of a turn on than provocation and stubbornness. If you want to tease your dom, instead of acting up..
tell them how good they always make you feel. let them know they own you, you're theirs. put aside any ego you have and give your Dom a break. be their good pet <3
⭒If you try and be a brat at the wrong time it can just lead to a more stressful situation. If your dom is having a rough day, they may not want to have you fight them. They probably just want to feel good, and make you cum for them. If you act up during a time period where
your dom is stressed or tired or sad, and you don't stop as soon as you notice something is out of place, then there is something wrong with you. your dom is there to love you and fuck you and you're there to love them and make them feel good.
don't go right into brattiness as soon as possible. make sure your dom is okay first. make sure they can handle being in a rougher headspace.
⭒You are not lesser or greater than obedient subs. Everyone had their preferences and you don't need to judge yourself based on someone else's preference.