If you don’t understand why calling transwomen dude bro or man is hurtful think of it like you’re pressing down on a bruise. Sure you might use it for everyone and for people without the bruise it’s no big deal, but for people with the bruise(a lot of transwomen) it really hurts

That’s not to speak for everyone and some transwomen don’t really mind. If someone asks you not to use those words try your best not to. It’s that easy