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I strongly believe most people aren't ready for real relationships. We are too damn used to toxic patterns, to people not be themselves (and change for others) and judging us even when they claim they're our friends that when we encounter real, honest people, we scare.
You're supposed to feel safe when you're in a relationship, to be listened without being judged, to be advised and told when you're not right and to have your space. Most of us tend to misinterpret the intentions (if someone from the opposite sex is involved) or just walk away.
Felt like sharing this. I came to this realization last night when a friend said she was sorry for being "too corny" and I was like no, girl, u be u, pls allow yourself to be as corny as u want in this relationship.
If you feel that you should change, it should come from yourself and in order to improve, not because you want to fit in some group, social scheme or relationship. Sure, your friends could point you where those areas are but never pressure you.
And, of course, one should be mature and humble enough to recognize one's weaknesses and "allow" oneself to be human and imperfect.
Let me know ur thoughts :-)
