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In my previous relationship, I was abused , we would argue left right centre, back and forth over anything and everything.
When I entered my new relationship I expected the same and found it weird that current boyfriend DOES NOT ARGUE OR YELL,
This was me:
When I entered my new relationship I expected the same and found it weird that current boyfriend DOES NOT ARGUE OR YELL,
This was me:
Every time I would raise my voice at him, he would keep quiet and just stare at me like:
I didnt get it until one day he sat me down and said
"Hertha, I won't ever hit you, I know that is what you expect but that is not me, I won't raise my voice at you and I don't expect you to raise yours at me"
Even than I didn't get it, my mind told me he is weak.
"Hertha, I won't ever hit you, I know that is what you expect but that is not me, I won't raise my voice at you and I don't expect you to raise yours at me"
Even than I didn't get it, my mind told me he is weak.
I had to work on me. In order to understand who this person was and where he came from. I needed to work on me first in order to truly accept what he is offering me.
Sometimes we are too damaged for other people, our insecurities and need for reassurance should not be a burden
Sometimes we are too damaged for other people, our insecurities and need for reassurance should not be a burden
For the other person. Work on yourself first guys, go see a therapist, talk to someone but fix yourself don't expect someone to accept you as you are, when even you don't understand who you are.
Love and Light.
Love and Light.
