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Ideas to support our Dommes during Covid lockdownObviously, everybody's situation is unique: physical and mental health challenges, finances, worries. IMHO this is a time for those that can to step up and support.
Please comment with your suggestions.
1] Everyone fucks up sometimes - just don't do it too often! A lot of time cooped up is going to test even the most patient of Dommes. We will all have moments when we are not at our best. Be graceful, let things drop. Everyone is doing the best they can to survive.
2] Don't be demanding. Recognise the limitations of the present situation and be flexible, patient and the most gracious of subs. Not every fantasy can easily be delivered in lockdown!
3] Tweet positive things about Her, about why you like Her, about Her as a Domme. Why is she special? Why should others be interested?
4] Retweet her content frequently - this will help raise her profile and expose Her to new audiences.
5] Like her tweets - in addition to giving a confidence boost this will help raise her profile and encourage others to engage.
6] Engage & comment on all Her Tweets - try to be positive and engaging. This will help boost Her profile and may help with the dreaded shadowbanning.
7] Buy content that She produces. Does she sell clips? Custom tasks? Physical goods? Buy it all if you are able to.
8] Subscribe to Her fan sites - a monthly subscription helps with regular income and is usually inexpensive and will provide regular exclusive content for you and additional chanced to interact. Win-win.
9] Interact on fan sites and social media - make it fun and engaging for Her and everybody else participating. The more we collectively put in, the more everyone enjoys it and success breeds success.
10] Order a custom clip, audio, photoset etc. This is an easy win-win!
11] Buy from Her gift list. Don't see one? Then ask for it!
12] Send a tribute, vouchers or cash. Ask what She prefers first though if you don't know and be flexible about options as there may be issues with some mechanisms.
13] Prepay for a session (or a deposit) to have at a mutually agreeable time after lockdown is lifted.
14] Spend time studying Her website and all Her material on social media - you shouldn't have to ask simple questions and waste Her time!
15] Create something special for Her. Perhaps some art or music. Do you have a special skill? This is a win-win as it will help your emotive brain deal with stressful feelings when you are creating.
16] Pay attention to the things She is interested in. Could you make a difference to Her life? Could you help with something She is passionate about? Could you make Her life easier?
17] Look after yourself and your own mental health so you don't become a burden to Her or others. Develop your own methods of self-care.
18] Enquire about adopting one of Her bills - through lockdown or permanently.
19] Send her a well-considered surprise gift if you have her details and permission to do so. If not, ask for permission to send her something.
20] Think of ways to give Her a confidence boost. Everyone needs one!
21] Be thoughtful - think before you do anything at all! Even things on this list. YMMV and everyone needs and wants different things.
22] If you know Her well: reach out & connect virtually without being intrusive. Does she need anything? How's Her mental health?
23] Remember Twitter is often simply a marketing fascade. There are very few megarich Dommes; yes there may be some designer handbags on display and gifts from rich subs but some Dommes, perhaps the majority may be struggling at the moment. Your support, however small is vital.
24] Many of us get our escapism through BDSM. Options are much more limited in lockdown. Pursue those that you can with your Domme, but be realistic and lower your expectations. Find other ways to escape.
25] Remember that in addition to the pressures we all had before lockdown - we are all under additional fear and stress. Your Domme will not be immune to this! Help her be positive. Remind her that this is temporary.
26] Help others - be a good person. If you use the time you have positively - then you're likely to be more appreciated by Her in general
27] You're likely to have extra free time. Could you work on a long-term project for Her? Could you build a new & unique piece of furniture? What skills do you have? What does She need?
28] Find lightness and humour (for some Dommes it's simply cat memes!) and use it to make her smile!
29] Reach out for professional help if you need it. You need to look after yourself if you want to look after your Domme!
30] Work out how you can learn from this experience, how can you thrive and take agency from the situation?
31] Support sex worker charities. There are many vulnerable people that need help.
32] Find ways, big and small, to give back to your Domme and/or the wider community
33] Support all your Domme's friends too. Use some of the methods in this thread: engage with them and help create a vibrant positive community.
