Not at all actually lmao. My hoe days are fun for stories but ultimately just a waste of my time & energy. I would've had a much better time with a good vibrator. https://twitter.com/orbgoddess/status/1248030418085036032

Men are honestly a waste of time if they haven't emotionally developed or worked on themselves.

Buttttt then I had to realize that I was searching for validation & not sex bc the sex was mostly whack anyway

This is also why I don't think it's best to preach "sex is empowering" to young ppl who haven't developed & are vulnerable to predators. Sex can be empowering but it can also be destructive to your own self image.