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Like I said, I refuse to be given advice when I didn't ask for it. But sometimes life would always do that. Life would always try to give you unnecessary things for you to manage, like advice. . . and problems.
The problem about being given unnecessary advice is that the other person who gave you that were already placing their expectation towards you. Sometimes heavy. Sometimes, not.
Some advices were unnecessary at all because the other person do make advices on just the other person's little (or none) explanation on the scope of the situation he/she's in. It just doesn't make sense why you need to say things from just a little perspective or thought.
Some advices were necessary. Esp. if the person giving the advice experience the same thing you're currently in. Let's call them "similars" for now.
Other times, we don't need advices at all. People who tend not to ask for advice were either too careful of listening with the wrong advice, or has a big ego. Big enough to reject an advice even if that's the best advice they could get from someone.
Egoistic person tends to do things by themselves. Some egoistic were self-aware, while some weren't.
Personally speaking, I do not know if I'm too egoistic or too self-aware. I'll stick to both for now.
Personally speaking, I do not know if I'm too egoistic or too self-aware. I'll stick to both for now.
And for me, i'd rather talk to these "similars" and ask them specific advice from certain things rather than ask another individual who just happened to speak without knowing the gravity, urgency, or importance of my experience and how it affects me.
"If you don't walk the same path as me, shut up. If you do, and convinced me that you know what you're doing, then you're trustworthy enough to ask things"
But sometimes, I don't follow that idea above.
Sometimes, the mere presence of these "similars" were good enogh for me to hit me in the head with a good amount of clarity.
"These people still exist and survive up to this day despite going either the same thing than me or much worse. How can I not appreciate that fact and go back and think for myself that I cold fix this? " is what I think sometimes under the presence of these "similars".
I've got a very few people who I could call "similars". Sometimes I bother them and ask how are they and catch up.
There's really no point in this thread tbh. I'm just mumbling shit tonight haha.
Idk, maybe a part of me wants to talk to these "similars" and ask them "what's up"?
