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You said I should tell you what a Woman wants if I say making her happy is not exclusive to money. Ha. OK. Let me try...
PART 1
From what I know FOR NOW, as I'm still a learner, there are two types of Women.
PART 1
From what I know FOR NOW, as I'm still a learner, there are two types of Women.
Type 1. The Woman who is satisfied fully with just being your Mrs. Whatever you do will be okay with her. She will give you "peace" even when you refuse to be responsible or accountable. She will put up with anything just to stay married because of societal expectation.
She'll be "submissive" to you even when you don't earn it. She would be like that Queen who called up a prayer retreat in order to reach her husband to make a request. She'll be satisfied living within your shadow as long as she's sha your Mrs.
She'll pray and fast and watch a particular movie repeatedly and she'll still be "quiet" even when you refuse to grow and mature. She'll work like a jackal to do everything and still respect you even when you're uninvolved in growing the family.
She'll put up a great appearance outside just to let people know she's "happily married." She pours all her energy into her work and the children because you've chosen not to grow up, with both of you totally disconnected but together in "holy matrimony".
Buying her gifts and giving her money would be enough, at least you're "sha taking care of her".
But bear in mind that she can evolve...
But bear in mind that she can evolve...
Type 2. The Woman who wants you as her friend and life mate. Consider "life" here as everything that pertains to you and her. Yes she's your Mrs, normal thing, but she wants full accountability and you must be responsible. She's both traditional and modern, she'll cook and wash.
She understands that no one is perfect and accepts you for who you are but expects you to put in the work to be a better human being. She is hard on herself too! So you'll see her own quantum growth as the years go by. It'll be apparent in everything she is and does.
You'll admire and respect her for it and your love for her will grow. Your heart will trust her but she won't accept you to just focus on "sitting at the gate." You gẹt?
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