This essay from @lizkinnamon unpacking 'the male sentimental' with nuance, depth and insight, has not only changed my life, but also changed the way I perceive people, men, men in arts, sensitive men in arts, woke sensitive men in arts. Forever relevant.

https://fwsablog.org.uk/2016/08/25/the-male-sentimental/

For more excellent readings on 'nice guys' in the replies to this thread from @nakkiahlui here: https://twitter.com/nakkiahlui/status/1191867158180978688