I'm going to be honest here this mentality is flawed,, and as a woman, a poc who is not a het either I'm saying it wholeheartedly,, even if I do exactly this.. Everything is down to a certain extent, but nowadays I see a lot of ppl taking advantage of this analogy to hurt others https://twitter.com/aphroditeseason/status/1247449690523738113

it's not like you should be waving this around like it's some special ability,, like the more people make it seem like that the more this society continues to keep oppressing each other with hatred