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Here& #39;s some advice from me when drama happens: Sometimes silence is better than you giving your opinion and adding more fuel to whatever is happening. I realized that everyone is free to voice out their opinion but please think before you voice it.
Anything could possibly happen in social media, different people have different views and so problem could arise from here. When you& #39;re met with sides who doesn& #39;t agree with you, I tell you it& #39;s tiring to defend yourself no matter how much you try.
Therefore, I believe silence is better. HOWEVER, there are times when we need to act on something. For instance, only get involved when the drama involve something that could directly affect your faves or their friends images. That& #39;s when we need to speak up to protect them.
If the drama is created by the antis or fan themselves, I suggest to not pay attention to them. Coz that& #39;s what they actually wanted, ATTENTION. The more you feed them, the more they& #39;re gonna be satisfied and the more damage they& #39;re gonna caused.
I suggest please don& #39;t waste your time and energy engaging with these type of people. Better save it to support your faves. Talk about supporting, I just want to say that all BL couples are in one genre. Why can& #39;t we all just chill and not make it competitive?
Let& #39;s just support and hype them. You& #39;re free to ship anyone you want and don& #39;t let people tell you it& #39;s wrong. Remember it& #39;s just SHIPPING! There& #39;s no guarantee that if you ship this person with other person, they could be real.
I haven& #39;t see yet any shipped couple turned into a real couple. About ghostshipping, let people ghost ship whoever they want coz remember shipping is just for fun and their life relationship doesn& #39;t concern us at all!
Here& #39;s another reminder: Shipping is just a HOBBY. Don& #39;t make it a priority and let it consume your life or else your life is only gonna revolve around them when there& #39;s actually more things in life.
Lastly, we& #39;re just fans. Like it or not, we& #39;re just a small part of their life. You can talk or do as many things as you can for them but it is still not significant in their life. The life is theirs to live and any decisions are up to them. Don& #39;t act like you know them well-
when you don& #39;t. Only they know themselves well. Whatever they decide or their life relationship doesn& #39;t concern us at all. Yeah we want them to live happily but remember they& #39;re adults. They know what they& #39;re doing.And we fans let& #39;s just do our job which is to support.That& #39;s all.
Sorry for this unnecessary rant.I just can& #39;t bear seeing anymore dramas and I wish this bl fandom isn& #39;t toxic anymore (tho it& #39;s impossible).I also understand if you don& #39;t agree with some of my points but I& #39;m just getting this out of my chest.Hope this won& #39;t create any problem 
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