Okie dokie #HumpDay thread time! This is something I came across earlier with a misogynistic douche that was harassing a mutual. It's about your body count. One the stigma of women against men and also how that doesn't fucking matter.

Okay, so I don't know if the mutual wants to be tagged, so I won't but it went from body shaming to slut shaming in like 5 seconds. I'm here to say that for anyone worth a second of your time, your body count doesn't matter. At all. People seem to value you less and fuck them.

But not literally. The idea that someone's "purity" or whatever resides in the number of people they sleep with is asinine and so old fashioned I don't know why it's still a thing. You can get really experienced with one partner or with many or have many and still lack in skill.

It really depends on your partner, your compatibility, and your willingness to explore. The double standard lies in society and toxic masculinity that says men can have however many partners and be praised, while women with multiple partners somehow lose value.

I promise your penis is not that powerful. Sorry, not sorry. Fun fact, the vagina is built to birth children. If we can squeeze out a whole ass human and have it go back, I promise you that your dick isn't as tough as you think it is. Sadly, too many men seem to ignore this.

In the same breath, men with multiple partners are somehow revered as more manly and whatever. Y'all, you can have a high body count and still suck at sex. I've met some of you before. Kinda disappointing to be honest. Listen to your partners and take some constructive criticism

I promise you it'll make for a better experience for both of you. Also for all sex havers, if anyone ever tries to shame you for your body or your number of partners, very quickly show them the door. They are not worth your time. Trust.

Specifically men, your dick is not powerful enough to strip a woman of her worth. We are not a commodity and we aren't property. We are whole ass people that may or may not enjoy sex. The funniest part is how they think the number of partners is the indicator.

Like take a seat, guys. Take several seats. Our worth lies in who we are as people, not how many of you we've been with. And with that I would say stay safe, have fun, get regularly tested, and get kinky my babes. If you so choose.