Who do you think gets more hate for dating outside their race? Black men or Black women? Why?
The worst comment was when someone said I was dating my white boyfriend so I would& #39;nt get shot by the police and six years later, I still can& #39;t find the correlation between the two.
But I have seen BM get awful treatment in public because of the non black women they& #39;re with. So ultimately, I& #39;m not sure. I& #39;m only sure of the fact that some people live miserable lives and they want others to join them in their misery. I can& #39;t do such a thing.
Before I started dating outside my race, I was still very supportive of black men who were dating/marrying non black women. I was only interested in black men at the time, but I never saw a reason to disparage non black men in order to love black men. And...
...that allowed me to date the black men I wanted. I wasn& #39;t busy dissing non black men while praising BM. And when I started dating outside my race, I STILL had no reason to disparage BM in order to love the non BM I was with. The focus was always on myself, not men.
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