I think the internet/tumblr/twitter via 2015-2016 “be a slut do what you want” really traumatized a lot of younger girls.
I think we should be sex positive, and talk about it in a logical/normal way (to an extent). I don’t think 17/18/19 year olds should’ve been telling other 17/18/19 year olds to try a kink with their boyfriends.
For me personally, my boyfriend at the time was turned on to that kind of stuff, and in turn wanted to try it and I don’t think I was emotionally ready for that. But the message at that time was that you SHOULD be doing that thing and if you weren’t into taboo sex you were dumb.
I’m bringing this up because of my tik tok. Omegle and Chat Roulette made it super easy for predators to see free child porn. Think about how many predators were on the internet following young girls on twitter because they were posting pictures in lingerie at 16.
To be a grown woman and doing it as either your profession, or just for kicks is different, obviously.
And before someone takes this thread the wrong way 1. no I’m not slut shaming you. Literally do whatever you want as long as it’s consensual and safe and your of age. 2. I am a stripper and I am not shaming sex work, again I’m just saying: be of age and understand all the risks.