You will continue to repeat the same mistakes over and over until you have the strength to look yourself in the mirror and face reality: You have unresolved issues that have you stuck in these toxic cycles. What are these issues? What’s holding you back? What needs healing?

Sometimes, we sabotage our lives, our happiness, our success.....all because of what we feel like we deserve or don’t deserve. Your childhood has impacted you SO much more than you know. Dig deep and figure out what story you’ve been told/have been telling yourself all your life.

Maybe you had a toxic parent who was disappointed with their life and took their frustrations out on you. They made you feel small and weak as much as they could to avoid facing how they actually feel about themselves. Maybe they had to make sure that you hated yourself too.

Maybe you had distant parents who made you feel like nothing good you did mattered. But when you’d make mistakes you’d get all of their attention, so you grew up not giving a fuck about succeeding in anything because it never mattered before. Only your failures mattered to them.