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I think a lot of people get into relationships because they view it as a necessity and don't always properly understand the amount of commitment and work a relationship needs. They kinda expect it to just work with minimal effort and when one thing goes wrong they freak out and
basically abandon the relationship or just dont know how to handle it. It makes it obvious that they aren't mature yet to handle a relationship because you'll have bumps and if you can't handle it and get through it then you're not mature enough for one. A lot of people just
get in and out of relationships really quickly too which isnt healthy either. You need time to heal and it takes time as well. Don't just start dating someone because you feel like you need a partner to be happy. That isnt how it works,,,,
Both people need to be putting an equal amount of effort into it. You can't just kick back and expect your partner to do everything? You can't just run away because you and your partner disagreed on something? You need to both be mature and handle it together. It takes a lot.
Especially LDR. I would know. Me and Garnet equally put a lot of effort into it and we do have bumps and disagreements but we always handle it maturely and get through it and it brings us closer. It doesnt make us drift apart.
Me and Gar make our boundaries known and we agree on things and because of that we're both happy. You need to be transparent with your partner. I CAN NOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. Talk to them!!! If something is bothering you talk to them!!!! You need to be open with your partner
They don't know what's going on in your head. If something upsets you tell them don't hold it back and expect them to just figure it out themselves?? Communication is so important idk why people have so much trouble communicating but insist on getting in relationships.
