Things that shouldn’t surprise people but do:

My sub is my PARTNER. MY EQUAL. He is the only one who I aim my sexual energy at. He’s the only one I want that way. Yes I’m his domme and he is my sub but we are in an adult monogamous relationship that is fairly traditional.

The fact that I have the control and he has submitted to me does not negate the fact that he is my partner. My confidant. My ONLY lover. We share responsibility for keeping this relationship lively. We are dedicated solely to each other. I’m not interested in anyone else. Ever.