My hand hurt pretty bad but let me just talk a little about the average Nigerian guy. This is no diss, no disrespect or an attempt to scorn but a tell from my observation & we need to do better as guys.

Don't @ me, don't drag me, don't come for me.

The average Nigerian guy sees every woman as a sex object. There's this ludicrous assumption that once you have money every girl must fall on their knees for you, so they work to make money just to get a feel of the "good life" even when they can't give themselves the good life.

Talmabout being a "bad guy". The average Nigerian guy believes double dating and playing with women's heart is a show of strength & authority. Like, I'd you're a guy and you've got just one girl or sleeping with one girl at a time, you're regarded as a ninnyhammer.

It's tragic but it's true. The belief if that women like a show of strength and the best way to show strength is to disrespect women. This is one of the biggest problems that lead to failed marriages. A man has issues at home & instead of resolving it, he feels

If he gets another girl outside, the wife will begin to behave. He feels she doesn't know what she has so he takes his delusional mind outside to frolic with other women.

Please dead this mindset if you think this way. You're no better than the urchins on the streets.

It's appalling but a fact to mention that the average Nigerian guy believes women like hard guys. So you have to be bad or gruesome for a lady to like you.

Sir if you think this way please dead it. Yes there are different ladies with different preferences but

Most ladies like to be pampered and loved and treated like a queen. They love you to be firm sometimes but don't be a dickhead while at it.

You those ladies that like hard crazy guys, most of them have been damaged by crazy guys that they don't even know what they want.

Be a loving, nice sweet guy. Be firm when you have to be but be a joy bringer almost always.

I didn't want to talk about how entitled most average Nigerian guys feel. Like because you're a guy, you feel if you whistle at a girl or call out to a girl she must answer. No fam, that's trash thinking. She didn't answer you just let her go.

Names calling & body shaming her just shows how dimwitted you are. The same you trying to get her attention two seconds ago right now be trying to disrespect her. Fam, she's not your property so respect yourself and take a walk. You'd probably be walking away from trouble.

The average Nigerian guy thinks money makes everything work with every lady bit that's a big fat transgenerational lie fam. True, there are ladies money talks and they work but have you met an independent lady??? Damn, they sexy ass. The way they think, act and perceive life.

You can have the whole world and they won't want you because you can't treat them right. This is why most guys fear an independent lady. Yes, there are some that are really crazy but when you meet the exceptional ones, you'll be happy you did.