So I’m having a discussion with a friend about dating and now I want to see what y’all think. We both asked each other two questions. Here they are:
Her questions:
1) Do you feel a woman should be expected to perform wifely duties to a man while they are just dating?
2) Would you date a woman outside of your race and if so why?
1) Do you feel a woman should be expected to perform wifely duties to a man while they are just dating?
2) Would you date a woman outside of your race and if so why?
My answers:
1) I personally date with the intent of marriage. So with that said I’m going to communicate that prior too so that we’re on the same page and then implement it. Meaning that I will be doing things in the sense of being a husband/father at some point.
1) I personally date with the intent of marriage. So with that said I’m going to communicate that prior too so that we’re on the same page and then implement it. Meaning that I will be doing things in the sense of being a husband/father at some point.
So would I expect the woman I’m dating to do such things knowing this information? Yes. If that wasn’t something she signed up for then I need to move around and find someone who is on that same page but if I choose to stay and continue doing “husbandry” things, then that’s on me
2) No I wouldn’t. I am all about black love. I believe anyone can love whomever they choose my but preference is to be with a black woman at the end of the day.
My questions:
1) Do you feel, in your experience, there is a true fetish between black men and white women and white men and black women?
2) Would you date outside of your race?
1) Do you feel, in your experience, there is a true fetish between black men and white women and white men and black women?
2) Would you date outside of your race?
Her answers:
1) I see black men fetishize being with white women more than I see black women fetishize about being with white men BUT I do see white men fetishize black women as well as white women fetishizing black men.
1) I see black men fetishize being with white women more than I see black women fetishize about being with white men BUT I do see white men fetishize black women as well as white women fetishizing black men.
2) I believe in black love. I’ve had a crush on one white guy ever and I was young (John Cena) but I would never date them. I love black men.
I made this thread for input because lately it seems to be a topic of discussion and instead of people giving direct answers on these threads it’s always a battle between BM and BW. I’d like genuine input here.
This is an open discussion so let’s get to it. Also, a lot of what I put is shorter versions of our answers so please don’t try insinuating extra for your own purpose, thanks.