Because I fucked irresponsibly

I’m in a state whereby I can’t just date any guy at anytime https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💔" title="Broken heart" aria-label="Emoji: Broken heart">

1. I’m a mother to 2 girls by different men

2. The 1st Born wasn’t planned but her father is amazing... he doesn’t have much but he’s trying

3. The 2nd Born was conceived under false pretense... mo’guy opted for no protection and feed me pills each day, promising me heaven and earth and when I couldn’t take the pills https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💊" title="Pill" aria-label="Emoji: Pill"> and fell pregnant he vanished

He left everything from his Job and change provinces

Well that’s not an issue ... the baby is grown but

4. It’s been 2years since I was single and I can’t move on because I don’t know how https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😩" title="Weary face" aria-label="Emoji: Weary face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤦🏻‍♀️" title="Woman facepalming (light skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Woman facepalming (light skin tone)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥴" title="Woozy face" aria-label="Emoji: Woozy face">

5. Point is even if I wanted to move on https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😔" title="Pensive face" aria-label="Emoji: Pensive face"> what kind of man should I date

A man who already have kids because I’m not gonna have anymore kids with the 3rd man

Or a guy who is just okay with the situation nje but is that even fair to just up and make someone a step father of 2

6. Realistically I’m undateable and that’s for sure

Guys please ensure you get to understand your partner’s intentions and don’t be naive cz some situations are not reversible... when you’re in you’re in