Please don't make me read yall for filth this morning i've really been enjoying my peaceful time of not dragging my tl or laying yall out, but.

Yall clearly need constant attention checking in and correcting.

Idc who you follow, who you ship them with how invested you are

in the faves you ship - you need to realize.

You. Are. Not. Them.
You're not their spokesperson, their protector or their PR agent. You aren't close enough to them to know what they're thinking or how they react to things. You only see what they show you and they're in showbiz

WHICH MEANS: this is their JOB.

Their life and personal business? Off limits.
Their relationship to their costars, friends or, in the case of a cp - their partner? Off limits.

If they have a relationship out of their work with someone else? Its none of your business

If they choose to have a relationship within their CP outside of work,

AND

- have not come out publicly to say so? Its none of your business

-they do come out publicly? Its none of your business

Literally anything outside of supporting their work, or GENTLY critiquing them to help them improve is OFF LIMITS.

When yall project your feelings, your insecurities, your obsessions, YOUR possessiveness, onto them

that's about YOU, and YOUR insecurities, and YOU being

sensitive.

I will say it and keep saying it:

THESE ARE GROWN ASS MEN NOT LITTLE KIDS. Even if your fave looks "baby" even if you like to style yourself as a "mom" fan

THESE AIN'T YOUR KIDS, YOU DON'T OWN THEM, THEY DON'T OWER YOU, YOU DON'T GET A SAY IN THEIR LIFE

spend more time digging in to why you give so many fucks about who they're dating who they're fucking who they're being shipped with like are you out of your mind??? to think that they don't know they're in an industry where people will ship them? That's literally the job, you're

doing it every time you defend your ship. ITS A JOB. if they get to meet someone they love and want to date out of it good for them; that shouldn't end their damn careers wtf do yall expect them to do, never work against another actor or actress again in another role? do you know

how stupid that sounds? literally nowhere else in the world is that the expectation of a star.

GET OVER YOURSELVES.