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Guys make me sick honestly
A lying, controlling and manipulative human, i am truly scared of guys. He cheats too
I remember when my grandma passed, I messaged him crying at this point we were in fairly good terms still regularly jetting asking him to come because I was so upset but he told me to go and cry with my flatmates
He would always tell me he didn’t want to see me with anyone else and he wouldn’t be happy if I did but was fucking 6 girls behind my back and even got him self a new girl 
while saying all of this to me
while saying all of this to me
He didn’t want to see me with anyone else yet he didn’t want to be with me either? Scary behaviour
The reason why he broke up with me was because I decided to help my male friend cook rice and because of his insecurities he broke up with me thinking I was cheating when I just innocently helped my friend
At first I wasn’t going to go because he had told me he wasn’t comfortable with me helping a MALE cook rice for 5 minutes but I realised that he’s not my dad and I can help who I want so I went and that’s when hell broke out
Couple months later we were still sleeping with eachother and I thought that maybe if I continued sleeping with him we could sort it out
I would always ask him if I was the only girl he was sleeeping with because we never used a condom (I’m on the implant) and didn’t want to catch anything, if he wanted to sleep with other girls he could’ve just told me I wasn’t doing to be angry
He would always tell me that I was the only one and that he wasn’t ready to meet other people because I hadn’t done it so it was more like we were trying to let eachother for but that’s why I thought
He had been sleeping with 6 other girls behind my back and even slept with his ex when we had a minor argument
I then found someone new and with respect to him I didn’t want to sleep with my new guy until I had told Alex so that’s what I did I waited to tell him before I did anything since I thought he was being loyal to me as a fwb
Turns out he had been sleeping with other girls while sleeping with me and even cheated on his new girlfriend with me (I didn’t even know he had one)
I messaged her telling her what had happened and she was upset like any girl would she asked me to send evidence that he had cheated while with her so I sent her a screenshot of a sex take me and him made with the dates and she told me that she has slept with him the same week
She still went back (not my problem, I’ve warned her)
I’m just sharing the experience I’ve had with som guys lol but lemme carry on
I obviously have no problem with his new girl because the problem is between me and Alex, she’s done nothing wrong to me.
I wanted to go to carnival last year but He told me that if I went I would be single and his word were “I know you’d be dancing on a lot of man because that’s just what BLACK girls do” I can’t make this shit up he really said that
Me trying to be the best girlfriend I could I really stayed at him to avoid an argument I soon realised that is why manipulative and controlling behaviour but I liked him so much so I over looked it
I felt like I was losing myself I knew I wasn’t happy but I stayed and tried to work things out with him because I cared for him that much
It’s now that I’m realising that it was gaslighting, I felt like I need to change myself to be perfect for him and it hurts me to know I let this happen to me
He knew I liked him more then he liked me I would try and talk about my feelings but he would make me suppress them because it would start an argument or he would just simply ignore what I was trying to tell him all together
That’s why I stoped talking to him about how I felt because there was no point nothing was going to change and I started talking to my friends about it. They all told me to leave but I didn’t listen
I loved this boy so much to the point where I chose to go to the same University as him so we could be closer together and just so we wouldn’t break up
Stupid idea GIRLS DONT EVER DO THIS
During freshers week I decided not to go to any of the motives because I knew it would have started an argument so while Alex was oontising away In the club I would be in my accom and stay up to wait for him to come to my accom and sleep
He didn’t want me talking to any guys because APPARENTLY all my male friends were failed talking stages I felt like I wasn’t allowed to be friends with the opposite sex without him accusing me of cheating
I felt like I wasn’t allowed to be friends with the opposite sex without him accusing me of cheating
