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Pay attention to the people who have a calming effect on you. They& #39;re your real friends. Bin people who stress you out.
I know people who have friends who regularly upset them, or who they have a history of fighting with. It& #39;s no different from an abusive relationship, stop it, you don& #39;t have to rely on them.
I know people who feel like they can& #39;t turn away because they will feel alone, or ejected from a group, but trust me, it& #39;s worth it in the end.
I went through a period in my life where I was constantly trying to win approval from so-called friends, balming myself when one of them was shitty or excluded me. It was never me, some people are just arseholes.
So I did a really tough thing and I vanished tbh. I blocked all of them on social media, and I never spoke to them again. Years later, I have an AMAZING bunch of friends from different circles, who only show me love and compassion.
You& #39;re less likely to be able to freely bond with /actual nice people/ if you let yourself be surrounded by dickheads. Free yourself and take a leap of faith.
Why would you even want the company of someone who makes you feel shitty 10, 20 30% of the time? Real friendship isn& #39;t like that. Real friendship is like, twice as powerful as romantic love.
Gets real easy after you realise you don& #39;t have to deal with it either. Literally, months ago I was told someone I thought was my mate, was chatting shit behind my back - so I just never spoke to them again. Gone, like a fart in the wind.
Bye felicia.
