I’ve been loved before & I know when someone loves me. Someone telling me the 3 words really doesn’t move me, show me or yekela. People say ‘ngyakthanda’ and forget they need to show it

I will not be teaching anybody how to love & treat me love. I strongly believe that if you love someone you just wanna do right by them. . Mese ngikfundisa then I am forcing

No one has ever taught me how to love anybody I’ve ever loved. I did it because It felt right, if I need to now teach someone how to love me then it feels forced.

As we’re getting to know each other you need to learn my love language & I learn yours. We are in this together, at no point should I teach you how to love me - never.

Love is Love & most things in love are common. Kindness, generosity, assurance etc... I cannot be with someone I cannot rely on even with the little things just cause they aren’t used to that way of loving.

Im not even one to want or expect much from a person when I am dating them but I also wanna feel loved & special. I also need assurance & softness. Don’t tell me to teach you, if anybody loves you and wants you to feel that love then they will show you.

I honestly don’t mind losing someone cause they are failing to understand my love language just cause they are busy wanting to be loved fully but only wanna love 1 foot in. Nah bru