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Women wouldn’t do this wife vs side chic challenge if they didn’t see the position of a wife as an achievement. Y’all involving in that challenge are pushing a narrative that a side chic is a threat to ur marriage! No! The cheating hubby is the problem! Not a side chic!
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That challenge promotes male infidelity based on the prevaricate notion that men are moved by what they see. That’s why in the challenge, y’all mostly portray the wife as unkempt and disheveled, and portray the side chic as sexy & alluring. This is subtly fostering infidelity!
Side chic VS wife challenge is everything we need to enable cheating. Why should there be a side chic challenge? I don’t get it? What is the goal? While you think it’s not that deep, It is normalizing the menace of male infidelity!
Some men still cheat on their sexy-looking, drop-dead gorgeous, hot, and sizzling wives. Men will cheat cos they want to; cos they know they will walk away with it. Many times it’s never about looks; it’s about a normalized and excused trait associated with masculinity, toxic!
Men are raised with an unrealistic beauty expectation from women. Perky boobs, pouty lips, curvy, no stretch marks, and women are raised to stretch for these standards. But guess what? You can never satisfy a man that lacks CONTROL!
A part of readiness for marriage as a man is the open mindedness to accept that your wife’s body will change after childbirth! It is the damn truth, and if your whole commitment with her is based off on her ‘feminine’ pristine looks, then you’ll fail, cos her body will change!
And this challenge is even more hypocritical. Who told you women are not also moved by what the see? This is why you see a POTBELLIED MEN cheating on his wife cos she doesn’t ‘look good’. HYPOCRISY
Fam, women love good looks too - abs, toned muscles, and buffed body.
Fam, women love good looks too - abs, toned muscles, and buffed body.
Sadly many women are participating in this challenge. No, doesn’t matter if you portrayed the wife as sexy in the challenge. What you don’t get is that you’re normalizing infidelity. You’re fostering a narrative that marriage is a war between a side and a wife over her hubby.
Have you seen any man do hubby vs side dude challenge? It will most likely never happen because men will never normalize a woman cheating on them. Phew. Y’all don’t get how this challenge is deleterious to the change we fight for. You’re making married men feel less accountable!
