I think it's for the same reason women want men to stick with them when the latter make it: This thing called "loyalty". When men "suffer", women have options in the form of monied older men. When men secure the bag, they have options in the form of younger broke beautiful girls. https://twitter.com/spicedliver/status/1247776382559477760

Now, if we are going to ask men to stick with good women who were there for them during tough times, we must ask women to extend the same initiative since we believe in equality. Because staying with a woman who has drooped chests when you can get sharp objects is "suffering"

But we ask men to stay anyway. Because we want a productive society where people don't act on impulse, respect sacrifices that were made for them & abide by their commitments. Surely women can do the same. If they can't, let 50-year-old men go for 20-year-olds in peace.

It is irredeemably obtuse for a woman in her 30's to lambast a male agemate for going for women in their 20s when she herself had ignored agemates in her 20s for road trips & chrome. You taught us that the highest prize goes to the moneyed man. We were good students. Toe the line

The biggest catastrophe in the world right now is a generation of women who think they are new. We had mothers. Who stuck by our fathers & were met with similar loyalty. Then they wonder, "why do all men cheat?" It's the trauma you triggered granny. How does it taste?