iso brought me back to an unhealthy mental state i didn’t think i’d go back to. i’m taking this time to focus on healing, getting to know myself better, and treating my body + mind right. i’m not ignoring anybody by not reaching out, and no i’m not “testing” any relationships.

i see a lot of stuff on the tl about making sure to check up on your friends, which is true and something you should do if you can, but it’s also important to keep checking up on yourself

a key thing to note is that ppl have different ways to cope with situations like this and centering yourself while EVERYONE is going through this pandemic is *surprise* definitely not gonna strengthen your relationships with those around you.

it’s not selfish to put yourself first. this thread is also not a sub tweet, just an observation based on what i’ve seen on social media across the board since we shut down.