I am learning to be growth oriented and not goal oriented. When you are growth oriented you judge yourself less, actually enjoy the process (even with all its failures), and it becomes more about experiencing what you love versus arriving at some end all be all.
You actually have to figure out what you care about first though and then begin to implement those things bit by bit into your daily life. And you slowly begin to open up.
I don’t care if it takes me years to figure it all out. If you’re not down to come on this crazy journey with me then it’s best you don’t stay in my life. I don’t have it all figured out but what I do have is determination and a heart that is open and curious.