it& #39;s ok to be bi/pan with a preference for women just do not call yourself a bi lesbian!! it& #39;s harmful because it reinforces the idea that lesbians can be attracted to men and that they just need to "find the right guy" or whatever

it& #39;s ok to feel a connection to the lesbian community in a way because of this as well, but it& #39;s not ok to steal their labels in a way that could be harmful or misleading. it& #39;s not a problem with your identity it& #39;s a problem with the way you& #39;re describing and labeling it