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Animal Crossing is really nice for dysphoria
Dysphoria is always something I& #39;m wary about mentioning because I& #39;m cis, so it& #39;s hard to explain and I& #39;m always worried people will get angry thinking I& #39;m trying to claim something that isn& #39;t mine
I can& #39;t claim it& #39;s the exact same experience
But there are dysphoric butches, too
I can& #39;t claim it& #39;s the exact same experience
But there are dysphoric butches, too
The first time I went to the mall in years and dissociated so hard in the women& #39;s clothing section I had to sit down somewhere to recover was bad
But I feel most right around my girlfriend.
&in AC she can be a pretty pretty princess and I can be a horrible gremlin w/a skull hat
But I feel most right around my girlfriend.
&in AC she can be a pretty pretty princess and I can be a horrible gremlin w/a skull hat
It& #39;s complicated? I& #39;m definitely a girl but in a different way, and not in a "Not Like Most Girls" way. A word I think fits best is genderpunk. I& #39;m a girl but my way of being a girl is as right as yours and fuck you if you think it isn& #39;t.
Punk is about reclaiming power structures, and girl is mine all the way, and that feels powerful & right.
With the example of clothes, my clothes aren& #39;t masc, they& #39;re MY clothes and that makes them girl clothes.
(but they are never FEMME clothes, fem/femme are not the same)
With the example of clothes, my clothes aren& #39;t masc, they& #39;re MY clothes and that makes them girl clothes.
(but they are never FEMME clothes, fem/femme are not the same)
(NO, I absolutely don& #39;t think being butch is just about clothes, and it& #39;s certainly not about being a "tomboy". It& #39;s sort of a gender identity/role all its own but this thread is not the place for that discussion)
There& #39;s a lot I could say but tl;dr gender is complicated but motorcycle jacket skull hat tittyfree animal game soothing
