THERE'S SO MANY REASONS BAKIT YUNG IBANG TAO HINDI MAKABITAW NG TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS: A THREAD by Dianne.

1. TAKOT NA MAGSIMULA YAN ng panibago sa iba at kumilala ng bago tingin nila marerepeat lang yung cycle na nangyare sa kanila. Totoo namang nakakapagod ipakilala ang sarili, bagong family, bagong tita lol, new adjustments nanaman gagawin.

Pero I'm telling you sa new adjustments nayun I'm sure better person kana kase madami kanang natutunan sa shitty cycle mo before. Y'all will have smooth sailing sa pagaadjust sa isat isa.

2. NANGHIHINAYANG SA MEMORIES OR SA TAGAL nila kase they think mahirap na bumuo ulit ng ganong klaseng memories pag nagrisk ulit sila sa bagong tao. But lemme tell u sweetie mas masarap bumuo ng bagong memories pag may peace of mind ka at the same time.

Always remember "IT'S BETTER TO TAKE A RISK THAN LOSE A CHANCE" you'll never know yung magiging memories nyo malay mo mas mging happy sakanya and lastly. HINDI MEMORIES BILANGIN MO KUNDI YUNG DAMI AT ILANG BESES KA NYANG NASAKTAN. Kung mas madami pa then he's/she's not worth risk

3. TAKOT MAGING SINGLE kase madaming rason like tingin nila bored sila pag walang makausap, cocompare nila sarili nila sa lahat ng may jowa puro "SANA ALL MAY JOWA" pero pag nasaktan "SANA ALL MASAYA" oh ngayun sana all di tanga? DO NOT RETURN TO PEOPLE WHO REPEATEDLY HURT YOU.

Patience is a virtue ika nga kaya let's learn to be patient at waiting at the right person. Naging patient kanga sa wrong person ano pa kaya if you'll wait for the right one.

4. SHE/ HE FEELS LIKE YOU'RE UNWORTHY TO LOVED RIGHT YOU ALWAYS QUESTION YOURSELF IF WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME BUT LEMME TELL YOU THE RIGHT PERSON WILL NEVER TIRED OF TELLING YOU THAT YOU'RE MORE THAN WORTH IT AND YOU'RE WORTH TO BE VALUED.

Remember it's not ok to stay somewhere where you are not happy, valued or appreciated. You've done your part sweetie. Search for that special person na hindi mo kailangan iprove lahat para mahalin ka.

And if the person really values you he'll/she'll correct you in a way na maggrow kayo parehas hindi lang basta na may pinrove lang sya na point to manipulate you or make you feel na ikaw talaga ang mali. If you know that you did your best there's nothing to guilt about.

5. MAHIRAP KASE NAKASANAYAN NA? I get it you used to wake up with the same person but if he/she disrespect you many times and make you feel you're not worth to be appreciated, learn to train your mind and emotions without them.

Learn to sleep without "goodnight" learn to wake up without "good morning" learn to live without "I'm proud of you" bcoz in the end, we only have ourselves and God who believes and stay with us.

6. THEY KEEP BEGGING SORRY TO YOU. Marupok ka kase sis nakailang sorry nayan pero paulit ulit mopadin tinatanggap coz you're assuming na magbabago pa yung tao but you know sweetie, if the person is really into you, they will make a change, they will try na maging mas better.

Listen, kahit million beses yung tao magsorry. Nothing will change. You'll lose yourself everytime na magiging marupok ka. You deserve someone will say. "I'LL BE BETTER, JUST DON'T LEAVE PLS", intead of thousand sorry. Because their effort is reflection of their interest in you.

7. MANY TIMES YOU'VE HAD INTIMACY TOGETHER/ SEX. But remember intimacy is not always sleeping w her/him sexually, Get a person who'll touch your soul and heart rather than someone who always crave for your body.

Go for stability, maturity loyalty and peace not just go for looks, body, and sex. Lust expires pero mas masarap padin yung may goals sa buhay. And building each other up together until success. That's the most attractive.