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Lol. Sexual compatibility is the biggest scam pls https://twitter.com/gideon__duke/status/1247532257536905218
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Iâm no authority on this matter o, but from the little I know, sexual compatibility seems to imply perfect (or near-perfect) sexual satisfaction for both parties as a result of similarities in sex drive, sexual tastes and maybe a perfect âfitâ. Right?
I believe itâs a myth because sexual satisfaction is dependent on a lot more than just the above .
Other equally (if not more) important factors include clear and consistent communication, discarding unrealistic expectations, selflessness,...
Other equally (if not more) important factors include clear and consistent communication, discarding unrealistic expectations, selflessness,...
...,getting accurate information about sex (itâs physiology, anatomy and psychology - I know, itâs not that deep. But isnât it? 
), willing compromise, and the passionate pursuit of pleasing the other partner above oneâs self!
), willing compromise, and the passionate pursuit of pleasing the other partner above oneâs self!
The erroneous assumption that âsexual incompatibilityâ spells doom for a married coupleâs sex life has served as an excusable reason not to put in the necessary work that allows their sex life thrive.
Does a couple need to âtest the watersâ to see if theyâre compatible sexually before proceeding with the marriage?
What really spells âincompatibilityâ?
If they find out theyâre âincompatibleâ, but every other aspect of their relationship is great (communication, shared values
What really spells âincompatibilityâ?
If they find out theyâre âincompatibleâ, but every other aspect of their relationship is great (communication, shared values
...common vision, beliefs, genuine love and respect etc), do they then discard the relationship because they believe their sex life is unsalvageable because of said âincompatibilityâ?
Is there any place of unlearning and relearning, gradual but consistent growth, and a genuine selfless interest in pleasing the other?
Is it possible that sexual encounters (and hence, level of satisfaction) with oneâs partner may vary based on hormonal factors, varying moods, stress levels and other non-sexual aspects of the relationship?
Is good sex (or the lack thereof) a biological fluke, or the natural outcome of a loving, selfless relationship?
I may have posed my opinions as questions (I have no idea why I do that some times lol).
But if you do have contrary opinions, kindly share. Letâs discuss some more
But if you do have contrary opinions, kindly share. Letâs discuss some more
