I have a friend (who will probably see this), who is not an organizer. She can be problematic (lol). She knows it. She can hurt peoples feelings, she can say the “wrong” thing. This friend will always give me the shirt off her back. She will give away her last dollar to help

someone. We can not talk for weeks or months but I know if I ever truly needed someone she would be there. We don’t have the same interests. Will she say some fucked up shit sometimes? Yes. Will I check her or anyone? Yes. Would I do anything for her? Yes.

“K how can you describe this relationship but still be a good organizer blah blah and hold people accountable” BECAUSE SHIT IS MESSY OKAY. Is your mom problematic? Probably. Do you still see her on holidays? Most likely. Okay.

All this shit about holding people accountable, accountability could approach you on the street and you wouldn’t even recognize her *shushing hand motion*