cause romantic relationships are the most important things humans can be in.
so everything else is treated as a seat-filler.
a "till the real one" gets here type thing. https://twitter.com/Shoun_B/status/1247514095588384768

why do you think when they ask people about choosing their friends or their partners they honestly say partners.

people cutt off their long time friends to make their partners happy.

people even avoid some friends to make the partner happy too.

so yah.

married woman come on here and preach that they had to compromise and start spending less time with friends, especially those that are unmarried.

we treat friendship as irreplaceable and plentiful.

we would rather tell stories of losing friends over "true love" then tell stories of losing love over friends.

and how we are so quick to believe that our friends have jealousy over this "union" when they caution of some things.

we treat romantic partnering as some sort of achievement.
a thing that makes you stand out. and anyone who is against that, is a hater. cut them off.