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I wanna talk a bit about subs. I’ve been in the community for a while, and was a sub at the beginning too. I feel like there’s some stuff I’d like to say that may help a lot of subs out there to find themselves a spot in this community.
So be sure to share this if you agree <3
So be sure to share this if you agree <3
As a person with a subby side myself, I understand the excitement we subs get when we see a really fun dom. We’d love to fawn over them, give them attention, talk to them every chance we get, to get them to notice us.
It isn’t wrong to feel that way.
It isn’t wrong to feel that way.
But what we need to do is keep it in check. There’s a thing that I’ll be repeating a lot in this thread, and it’s
Be yourself.
Be yourself.
Subs try and become what they think the dom will like.
Subs that become “cutesy”, or “weak and subby”. We think that it’s the best way to get the attention of the people we like. But when everyone else does it, how are we unique?
Don’t change your personality,
Be yourself.
Subs that become “cutesy”, or “weak and subby”. We think that it’s the best way to get the attention of the people we like. But when everyone else does it, how are we unique?
Don’t change your personality,
Be yourself.
We doubt it, we think we’d never be interesting enough as ourselves. But as a dom myself, there was never anything more interesting and fun for me to explore, than someone else’s personality.
To see someone that is acting naturally as themselves, it feels genuine, interesting.
To see someone that is acting naturally as themselves, it feels genuine, interesting.
And that moves me to the topic of how to find a dom.
Doms aren’t about their “domming skills” or “hypnosis experience”. There’s so much more to having a dom than just a trance dispenser.
Look for a friend, that happens to be a dom.
Doms aren’t about their “domming skills” or “hypnosis experience”. There’s so much more to having a dom than just a trance dispenser.
Look for a friend, that happens to be a dom.
There is nothing more interesting in a d/s relationship, than everyday casual stuff. To have a dom you play games with, watch shows with, discuss topics with, share news with, laugh at memes with. Someone that has mutual interests with you.
A friend.
A friend.
A friend who happens to be a dom.
Sessions would never have a beginning or an end. You’d smoothly transition into them teasing and domming you from a casual discussion about anything. It adds such a fun and interesting dynamic to just “dom me at 7pm”
Sessions would never have a beginning or an end. You’d smoothly transition into them teasing and domming you from a casual discussion about anything. It adds such a fun and interesting dynamic to just “dom me at 7pm”
And there’s nothing more fun than having a dom tease you in casual everyday stuff.
To have them toy with your head while playing minecraft.
Or tease you about a scene in a show that seems a bit kinky.
Or to wake up and cuddle them
Or sleep on their lap.
A friend.
To have them toy with your head while playing minecraft.
Or tease you about a scene in a show that seems a bit kinky.
Or to wake up and cuddle them
Or sleep on their lap.
A friend.
So how do you as a sub find that?
How did I do that as a sub?
It’s by talking.
Chatting.
Being yourself, and finding a dom with mutual interests.
It’s not about how “hypnotic” they seem
It’s about how much you have in common, to keep you from having a tiring relationship.
How did I do that as a sub?
It’s by talking.
Chatting.
Being yourself, and finding a dom with mutual interests.
It’s not about how “hypnotic” they seem
It’s about how much you have in common, to keep you from having a tiring relationship.
Be yourself.
Find a friend, that happens to be a dom.
Not a dom, that you change yourself to be friends with.
Find a friend, that happens to be a dom.
Not a dom, that you change yourself to be friends with.
This was just a little thing I wanted to talk about since a while. I did leave out a lot, but I feel like I might make more posts like this from time to time.
If you feel like this is an important message, be sure to retweet, I’d be glad if this helped more subs <3
thx4reading
If you feel like this is an important message, be sure to retweet, I’d be glad if this helped more subs <3
thx4reading
