Because they is literally no joy in having sex with someone who is experiencing pain most of the first time and dont know what to do to you or themselves https://twitter.com/Mex86_/status/1247456376932032513
You cannot stroke virginal pussy with reckless abandon. Ain't no real space to move or stretch it out. You only getting so far without causing extreme discomfort. Sex for her is going to be performative for a while. She dont know what the hell going on
There is a period between making your sexual debut and finding you sexual comfort
Besides virgins 21 and older tend to become obsessed with being virginal all the while building the expectation that their first time will really mean something. Be romantic or at least given to someone who really matters
That's religion's fault. But by and large the first time for women is terrible. I love that it was called the Peggy Lee Syndrome.
But yikes at "something's no one has had before" wooo. Baby. That line of thinking will EAT YOU UP when relationships don't work out.