I have believed every single mother when they advised me not to have kids. It wasn't even about their kid, it was NO hate towards their kid, but it was them admitting that as mothers, they weren't ready for all that responsibility, but had to step up on their own.

I know they wish they had waited, chose a different father, gotten married, and ultimately wish they could've given their child a different experience. It wasn't the kid's fault, it was how things went and they DEFINITELY say that.

You gotta learn from other people's mistakes in life just as much as you learn from your own. Qq