Uh idk who needs to hear this but your favorite creator is not obligated to respond to you. You are not special.
I don't look in my instagram dm's because it gets overwhelming and it just isn't possible for me to respond to everyone.
Don't message my roommates either pelase.

If you're going through something difficult I am sorry but seeking out a stranger's validation is not the way to deal with it.

I hope this doesnt discourage anyone from dming the creators they like!
Go for it, I've done it, and it feels nice on the rare occasion there's a reply, but please don't take it personally if there isn't one!!