if something isn’t your cup of tea, that’s literally valid and 100% okay.

if @jamescharles, isn’t the MUA/creator for you, also cool. do you.

we gotta stop demonizing people for *unintentionally* triggering us. it’s not his responsibility. filter out the content you dislike.

also, where did the specific point of domestic abuse come up? you see what i’m saying?

like yeah, that IS a reality, but... that’s not what this is.... why did we take it there?

my guess is simply: because you *could*,

you just shouldn’t.

i’ve dealt with abuse, violence, etc. to varying degrees and not to compare trauma responses, but this ain’t bother me at all.

my opinion/response isn’t more valid, however, neither is the other side’s.

this is all subjective as fuck.