Cw//nsfw, bdsm, don/sub, consent.
I’m a sub and I’ve been in a few situations where the dom abused their position by making me feel like I couldn’t say no. Those are awful doms. If your dom makes you feel that way leave them https://twitter.com/charllandsberg/status/1247170615217446915

Consent is the key to all sexual relationships including bdsm. This is why we have safe words. This thread is a great explanation of why good subs and doms will never be disappointed if one is not interested.