Kids between the age of 18-25 is just not the way to go UNLESS youâre engaged, long term relationship or you and your partner has agreed on keeping yâall child. I donât think we even experience enough in life in our 20s.
I can say one thing Iâve learned is to not fall inlove while youâre young. Itâll ruin/change your whole perspective on life. You have to be mentally ready for a stable relationship and know someone inside and out before completely settling down
Our generation DONT DATE. We just hop into relationships and thatâs the first and biggest mistake. We donât take the time to get to know each other for who we really are. Yâall love to skip the 21question( whatâs your favorite color, yo favorite food) part of dating whenâ
Not everyone the same, what works for others may not work for you. Donât be having no baby cause you see yo friend make it look easy. Or you see people on social media flashing their love life and you think itâs all peaches and cream
And yes shit happens! But as a woman and a man you have to make the right choice. Not the Godly choice, the persuasive choice, the my mama said choice, the my friend did it choice. Itâs YOUR decision and you have options that can be explored for YOUR MENTAL SAKE.
If Iâm pushing 30 with no kids thatâs fine with me.. Iâm not rushing anything. Everything will happen in divine timing