@utumno_4 Your profile page says nothing about you but I'll guess you have never:
Held a baby born destined to die for 8 hours who was born without a functioning brain.
As a team effort, did CPR on a hospital patient without success.
In a Recovery Room, my young male patient is

told by a Surgical Resident they didn't do the surgery as planned because the cancer was too advanced and as a nurse listened to the patient's questions.
Consoled a husband in a Recovery Room who's wife was going to die and did with the husband there.
I could go on.
I hope any

contact with any nurse is where you can appreciate their years of expertise, not just functioning skill sets but psychological and emotional care of patients and families. In my years as a professional, I attained my Bachelor's degree, a Health Certificate from separate

Universities. I've taken many extra courses at Colleges and Universities in Psychology: Neuropsychology, Child Psychology, Medical Anthropology, Sociology and also courses in Trauma Therapy. It means as the nurse I am, if someone is expressing their abject sorrow on a public

forum where others are reaching out, then why wouldn't someone want to do so. Your comment, if you think about it didn't at all express compassion for this devastated man losing his brother. Such anger can be in times of intense grief can be turned to self resulting in self harm

or sadly even suicide attempts or a suicide. As a nurse, I've worked occasionally in Psychiatry both acute and chronically ill patients some who were suicidal due to loss of a loved one or multiple losses. They want to die to be with the person lost. To kindly and compassionately

in an approach is often what it takes to soften anger and as I stated, if that is allowed to lessen, the chance of self harm is also lessened. So, with this thread to you, I think you may need to consider reaching out to this young man with whatever kindness you have to offer.

Realize you are possibly a better person than your original comment to me showed. I hope if and whenever you are ill and need a nurse, she is caring and professionally compassionate toward you. I will wish that for you. Take care of yourself.