regarding the ezra miller thing: not to be a bitch but a lot of men will hide behind queer aesthetics to not have to take responasbility for their positions as men in a patriarchial society. this includes clothing and makeup but also the way they chose to talk about their gender

ezra miller saying ”i don’t know if i’m a man or a woman i barely identify as a human”

1. is not him coming out as trans, he’s a queer dude

2. does not change his position in patriarchal society

omg i swear i’m gonna get cancelled for this. some guy saying that he ”doesn’t identify as a human” has nothing to do with being nb. this was not a thing he said in a sincere moment, this was said in an interview he joked his way through

i’m gonna mute this now! did not know ezra had been more clear about his gender since the ”doesn’t identify as a human” comment.