Trust Issues: A Thread

We walk through life meeting people here, there and everywhere we go when we have open communication, however, at times we may feel as though our trust may have been broken or we feel betrayed to a certain extent. But why do we feel that way anyway?-

Why do we feel like we got stabbed in the heart? Sometimes people lie to us, sometimes they cheat us, fuck us over, “choose” someone else over us and we let it affect us because we see it as “this shit is happening to me because of something I did” or-

“why would they do this to me?” But, a different perspective is “wow they were hurting so badly that they ended up hurting me too” or “hurt people hurt people and I shouldn’t let what they did affect me because, in the end, they are only hurting themselves.”-

We have these trust issues, yes, and we can heal from these traumatic events in our life that left us with open wounds, but it’ll only heal if you forgive the person and move on from what they did. Acknowledge what has happened, understand it from all sides, understand and heal-

through your emotions. Listen to your gut and intuition and guides on what to do to heal. Meditate and be more present so you won’t worry so much about who is going to hurt you next. We are all humans. We all make mistakes.-

Do not hold the mistakes of someone from your past over a future person because you could not get over past hurts. Heal, grow, move forward.