On forgiving abusers (Utsav /Tanmay Bhatt /Ansari). Ppl can change but survivors don't EVER have to forgive abusers & appreciate their art. It's OKAY for survivors to be biased against assaulters. We DON'T have to view the world with neutral eyes that erase a history of violence.

I'm SO angry at apologists here saying "everyone deserves chances." You're WAY out of line telling survivors they should give abusers another chance. We DON'T find their stupid jokes funny anymore. And we're DAMN well allowed to be angry for as long as we want. How DARE you?

This isn't about how the *law* should deal with abusive men (I've written extensively about the state's role in handling violence). I'm talking about how *individuals* are allowed to react to abusers & their art. The law should aim to reform. Survivors are allowed to stay angry.