ok so i wanted to write this thread long time ago. i usually get a lot of dm’s where most of y’all have vented how you feel and what you’re going through. what i’ve noticed that in most every dm/secret message, you’ll have expressed how you guys aren’t feeling good

about this whole situation that going on. someone messaged me a long paragraph explaining how they can’t sleep at night bec theyre really attached. got a message how one person has gone into depression bec of whatever is going on right now. another message said

how they feel like they’re abnormal bec they just can’t get over it. let me tell you one thing, YOURE NORMAL. it’s okay. it WILL be okay. we all have invested good 5 months on them and unintentionally everyone got really attached and that’s fine. but let me tell you what’s not

fine here. the constant clinging on to this. it’s the constant expectations. that’s wrong. y’all are such amazing individuals who can do SO much in life. i know it’s difficult and seems impossible, but try to slowly detach yourself. i’m not saying stop loving

or supporting them. i just asking you to stop expecting alot bec you’ll get hurt. it’s funny how i’m the one preaching when i should apply these things to myself but trust me i’m trying. and don’t want anyone to suffer thus this thread.

try to watch new shows & slowly move on. y’all need to understand they’re humans. they’ve entertained us for freaking 5 whole months non stop. they need a break and so do we. bb is over. stop fandom fights that’s screw up with your own mental sanity

it’s good to defend your idol or fight for them but not to a limit where you’ll lose your own sanity. stop. be happy with whatever content you get. be it a picture or post. stop making fuss about who liked what. let’s make them comfortable as well. love them. hype them.

idk if a lot of people will understand my POV but yeah it hurts when i talk to people and how much they’re emotionally invested to point where they’re suffering. i don’t want that. i want everyone to be happy in their lives. y’all are more than you think!